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It’s time to ignore the stigma surrounding sex games. There’s nothing dirty about these flirty escapades. If anything, they add some much-needed spice and fun to your routine (and maybe) boring sex life.

Sex games help you leave your inhibitions at the bedroom door, so you can bring lots of curiosity and sky-high anticipation to the bed. It’s a great way to get to know your partner all over again and rediscover the fire that you both have deep down.

You might feel shy at first, but we’ve got a game for every comfort level – and 11 of them!

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1. Touching game

Touch leads to a powerful buildup and greater intimacy. And this three-minute touching game is an electric way to bring excitement into your foreplay.

Here’s how it works. You and your partner take turns being the giver or the receiver. When you’re the giver, you have three minutes to ask your partner where you can touch him, and then excite him with your touch. When you’re the receiver, let yourself get turned on.

2. Time your foreplay

Even though the point of foreplay is to create lots of sexual excitement before penetration, even foreplay can become boring and routine. You can fix this by setting a timer, and until that timer goes off, you’re only allowed to play.

Afraid you’ll still have boring playtime?

Use a deck of cards, or a set of dice and assign a sexual activity to each card or number. Another choice is to get kinky dices like these upscale sex dices by Dalliance International.

These have both activities + positions already marked on them, making your life that much easier. Just toss the dice and let the games begin!

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3. Roleplay

This might not be for everyone, but role-playing is a great way to make sex wildly fun again. For intense role-play, allow your partner to make you their prisoner. He or she can tie your wrists and ankles to the bedposts and make love to you.

What do you do? Allow and enjoy. If this is part you’re not ready to play, don’t worry. You can play doctor and nurse, wear one another’s clothing, or become any other characters that resonate with you.

Kinky nurse outfit, a pirate outfit, schoolgirl, or even “bad cop” costumes – the selection is WILD!

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4. Love is blind

There’s something incredibly erotic about not seeing what your partner is doing. So, tell your partner to come into the bedroom after a minute or two. In the meantime, don your sexiest lingerie, blindfold yourself, and wait for him on the bed.

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This is a huge turn-on for him since he gets to explore you and pleasure you. It’s wildly steamy for you because you don’t know what’s coming.

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5. The kissing game

Kissing is probably the oldest intimate action you two have done, so it might feel like a household staple at this point. The next time you’re hanging out, watching TV or listening to music, choose one kiss word. That means every time you hear that particular word, you have to kiss.

It makes kissing spontaneous, fun and something you’ll want to do more of, simply because there’s this simple rule holding you back.

6. Paint night

You don’t have to be artistic for this sex game. All you need is some watercolor paints and your bodies. Leave the clothes in the wardrobe and take turns gently painting each other. Simple touching is already erotic, but adding in the fluid colors of paint makes it that much more stimulating.

And when your paint night is finished, hop in the shower together and keep the intimacy going.

If either of you are artistically inclined, why not sketch each other?

As the model, you must remain still and wait in anticipation to see the final drawing. As the artist, you can’t engage in any sexual activity. Instead, you have to pay close attention to every line and curve of your lover in order to draw them.

Extra tip: Hustler Hollywood has a special chocolate body paint that comes with a paintbrush. You can literally draw chocolate on your partner's body (or vice versa) and lick it off! And the best part, the body paint packaging looks absolutely beautiful, resembling a luxurious perfume.

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7. Make dinner together

Making dinner together might not sound like a sex game, but it is when you do it right. Skip the clothing and wear only your apron. Light candles, play your favorite music and combine these two primal needs in one steamy kitchen.

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8. Kinky spelling

By now, you can see just how powerful touching one another’s body is. So, make it interesting with a spelling game. Have your partner lie on the stomach, and spell words across his back. If he guesses correctly, he’ll receive a specific sexual act. If he’s wrong, maybe he’ll get a gentle spank or something else you both choose.

Another fun, literary sex game is to read aloud from your favorite erotic, or romantic novel. Make the fiction real by reenacting what you read.

9. Open up a pandora's box

Everyone has sexual fantasies and desires that you might be too shy to admit. Each of you can write down five of them on separate slips of paper. Place them in a box, and take turns drawing a slip and giving it a try. When you’re both sharing your sexual fantasies together, it’s still vulnerable, but less scary. And you might discover new activities that ignite both of your passions.

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10. Be a masseuse

There’s something gorgeous about receiving a massage from the hands of your lover. You can both take turns massaging and rubbing. And to make it easier and more arousing, use oils to create smoother, slippery skin.

It will definitely open you up to new sexual experiences, and something you can easily do again and again.

11. Stripper dare

Truth or dare is a common sex game, and while you can easily do that game, Stripper Dare bumps it up a notch (or two!). When you act as the stripper, you can’t just do whatever you please. You and your partner, or your partner only, have to come up with specific actions for you to perform as the stripper.

Bring fantasies to life, explore your own sexual power and enjoy each other’s sexuality in this intimate show.

Sex games might get a bad rap, but as you can see, there’s nothing bad about them! They’re intimate and private, and allow you both to vamp up your sex life.

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