Americans are in the midst of a sex drought with as many as 23% of adults admitting to not having sex in the past year according to a recent survey. As responsible sex has been proven to be of great benefit both to our physical and mental health it is important to get frisky with our partners on a regular basis.
One way to reignite the fire in your relationship is to bestow the occasional sexy gift (other than yourself) on your man. While many women are extremely clued-up when it comes to all the latest sex toys and gadgets, others are still only just discovering the hidden world of sensual paraphernalia.
If you fall into the latter category, a few basic guidelines will soon help you find the best gifts for the special man in your life.
Edibles are always welcome
An old proverb reads that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. One way to get your man’s heart and hormones racing is to gift him with a sexy edible. Chocolate body paint is always a hit and it is something you and your man can enjoy as a couple. If you fancy yourself a bit of a baker you can whip up a batch of cute boob or butt biscuits that you can feed to your man when hunger strikes after a rigorous romp.
A simple Google search will also bring up countless ideas for other kinky edibles such as chocolate anuses, edible underwear, and bubblegum-flavored edible lube that can easily be ordered online.
You are never too old to play with toys
Isn’t it great that women are, for the most part, becoming a lot more open-minded as far as sex toys are concerned? Gone are the days where a hot-blooded man had to hide his cock ring in an empty cigarette box in his briefcase out of fear for what his partner may do when she discovers it.
There is a huge variety of sex toys on the market that will not only put a smile on your guy’s face but improve your sex life as a couple as well. Fleshlights are all the hype right now and with very good reason. Not only do they come in a variety of shapes and sizes but they can either be used during a solo mission or by an adventurous couple.
Other popular gift choices would include a prostate massager, an egg masturbator, and a butt plug kit. Even if you don’t think your man is into sex toys chances are he really is and will be blown away by just how sexy and liberal you are being.
Something novel (for laughs and kinks)
There is no rulebook that states that a sexy gift can’t be humorous as well. If both you and your partner have a killer sense of humor you should definitely consider splurging on a few kinky novelties to spice up your sex life.
An x–rated coloring book can set the mood for a night of passionate lovemaking while stress boobs will help your man relax after a testing day at the office. A love card game, kama sutra dice, ‘ring for a BJ’ bell or a ball scratcher will all make any special occasion even more memorable while also giving your sex life a healthy boost.
Nothing says ‘I want you’ quite like a sexy gift. You don’t even have to wait till an occasion like a birthday to buy your man a sexy gift as every day spent together should be considered special enough.
