Between photoshopped beauties and the siren calls of plastic surgery, women receive one big message every single day: your body isn’t good enough and you need to change it. This goes for everything from your nose, lips, boobs, belly, and bum.
It’s almost impossible not to compare yourself to everyone around you (whether they’re real or airbrushed).
But we’re here to tell you that you can love yourself just as you are and that you get to love your breasts no matter what their size is.
Bigger Isn’t Always Better
The stereotypical “ideal” woman is a voluptuous dame. She has ample breasts, a slim waist, and full hips. This leads women to reach for padded and push-up bras, get the good old boob job, or simply feel ashamed of their little rack.
And while some men may go gaga for double D’s, that doesn’t mean you need to hate on your little tits. Here’s why:
Easier to Stimulate
Because small breasts have less fat content, they’re more sensitive to stimulation, according to a study from the University of Vienna. This means you’ll enjoy more stimulation during sex thanks to your A-size boobs.
Small breasts don’t weigh as much as the envied “feminine” ones, but you know what? That means they won’t sag as you grow older.
Less Back Pain
Large breasts can weigh on you, and pull on your back. Small boobs, on the other hand, make it easier to stand tall without back pain.
Easier Time Playing Sports
There is plenty of awesome fitness apparel for women, but even the best support doesn’t always cut it for large breasts. Lucky for you, you hardly notice or feel your small breasts while training for your upcoming marathon.
Smaller Isn’t Better Either
Now, small breasted women do have some advantages, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything to be ashamed of when it comes to having bigger breasts.
Here are just some of the reasons why:
No Push-Up Bras or Plastic Surgery For You
Guess what? With ample breasts, you already have what so many women want. All you have to do now is love them.
How do you do this? Wear supportive bras, massage them on the regular, and don’t be afraid to wear clothing that tastefully highlights your physical asset.
You Can Rock Most Looks
Whether you’re wearing your boyfriend’s tee shirt or a bodycon dress, you’re going to look amazing in your wardrobe staples.
You Can Be Massively Attractive But Not Be An Easy Catch
Sure, some men are turned on by big boobs, and that’s okay. You can let them be. It’s fun to be admired sometimes. Plus, it’s a great way to boost your body confidence and self-respect.
But always remember, you don’t need to sell out. This means that if you’re tired of the catcalls and the disrespectful looks and comments, call these guys out and show that you’re worth respecting, no matter how big your boobs are.
You Get To Enjoy Custom Tailoring and Bra Fittings
Unless you go to the plus size section, it might be difficult to find tops and dresses that suit your boobs. But don’t you worry, buy a size up, and take it to a good tailor. With their help, you’ll have clothes that fit you perfectly.
The same goes for bras. It’s easier for smaller breasted women to get away with most, inexpensive bras. You might envy that, but you shouldn’t.
That’s because you get to have a bra fitting in a ritzy department store and find a bra that both supports your breasts and makes you look bomb.
How to Love Your Breasts Whatever Their Size
You might have the boobs of a fertility goddess. Or, your breasts might be small enough that you don’t even need to wear a bra.
Either way, there are perfectly good reasons why your breasts are perfect for you, and why you don’t need to feel ashamed or embarrassed about them.
But to help you love and respect this special part of your body, here are some fun and easy ways to take care of your breasts.
And remember, these are things you do for you.
- Breast Massage: After you wake up, or before you go to bed, give yourself a breast massage. Start by finding your favorite body oil or body butter, such as coconut oil, almond oil, or jojoba oil. Massage both breasts in circular motions, and then reverse. This helps keep your breasts perky, and it also encourages the flow of lymph and blood. This is important for good breast health.
- Stop Wearing a Bra: Now, you probably want to wear a bra when you’re out in public, or when your in-laws come for dinner. But try to go bra-free whenever you can. This helps your breast tissue stay firm, and it helps your lymph fluid flow more freely. Plus, it just feels so darn good to let your ladies loose!
- Embrace Your Boobs: Depending on your upbringing, or your current mindset, you might associate shame and embarrassment with your boobs. You might want to hide them, especially the nipple. Maybe it’s time to ask yourself why you want to hide them. Or, why you’re afraid of this part of your body. Being honest with yourself can also help you embrace your boobs for what they are. They’re a beautiful addition to your beautiful body.
- Look in the Mirror and Love What You See: This might be the hardest way for women to love their breasts. That’s because it’s very easy to look in the mirror and dislike what you see. You probably think and say lots of negative things about your breasts.
So, instead, stand in front of the mirror, without any bra or top, and just love and accept your breasts. Thank them for being a part of your body. Moisturize them with your most lovely lotions. Dress them in your favorite, perfectly-fitted bra. In short, let your boobs know that they’re welcome and that you’re happy to have them.
Society and the media might try to sell you on big boobs, but you can love your breasts no matter what their size.