If you thought Netflix & Chill is a plainly dirty way to refer to love-making, then you might want to reevaluate your ideas about adult movies, sex and those two combined. No, we are not talking about 50 Shades Of Grey here but in fact, watching the good old p.o.r.n (no matter if alone or together) will not ruin your relationship contrary to a very common misbelief. It has been proven that adult movies can actually have a great boost for your sexual life! Yes, you heard me right ladies – so clear your mind from all the myths you’ve heard.
The two sides of the same coin
Porn is such a taboo subject that no wonder if you haven’t even spoken about it with your partner yet. It’s clear that as with anything in this world, there is no black and white and it cannot be said conclusively if porn is good or bad for you in particular. It all comes down to your relationship and what feels comfortable for you – noone can force you into doing something you don’t want to do.
The main reason why it is believed adult movies are the reason of failed relationships, is the belief that men who watch porn associate themselves with strange women and the border between strange women and their own partner becomes vage, therefore it would be more likely to cheat on your significant other. It might easily be true BUT I cannot emphasize enough that no studies or common beliefs can assess whether that “rule” will apply to you. Not all men who watch porn have the tendency to cheat! Actually, porn is even considered to be a nice relaxing activity that will relax muscles and calm the body.
As porn is so easily accessible nowadays, it is often seen as a major threat but let me put it this way for you: do you trust him? If you do, there is no reason why you should be doubting! Despite porn being so easily reachable, it’s not necessarily a sign of him losing interest towards you.
Adult movies will ruin my relationship – Wrong!
If you found out your partner has been watching porn then take a deep breath and listen to this: everybody have watched porn and the majority of men watch it every single day! It’s nothing new, it’s not uncommon and it’s nothing to be afraid of. You might be asking now: “Why has he been hiding his adult movies then?”. That’s easy – it’s not a likely topic to come up in a conversation! Even more, if you are interested in this, you should ask him and talk about it more. Unfortunately, since the topic has a certain taboo-taste to it, it’s clear why people are rather ashamed of watching it. Actually, it’s completely natural and nothing to be embarrassed about.
You might have heard that people blame adult movies for their breakups and cheating husbands. Now think about it this way: if your husband plays racing games, does it mean he will become a racer? If he plays medieval RPG games, does it mean he thinks he’s a knight and will run to a battle to fight with dragons? Not really, right!
Porn is a way for studying human body and sexual acts, if it has any connection to the real life it’s the boost in libido and sexual knowledge as you will learn a lot from watching different videos. In fact, a study has shown watching 40 minutes of porn twice a week will boost your libido which is only good for your lovelife! Forget the myths about erectile dysfunction or excessive sex hunger – men are treated too much as animals rather than people with deep emotions. There is more to sex than just physical act – it’s about love, connection, tenderness. There is no need to be stressed if you find your husband watching porn. Perhaps you will even find something for yourself! There are also many couples who watch adult movies together – besides a lot of interesting ideas, you will have unforgettable connection that no actress in the movie can replace.